Damien's reference to drugs and violence in a joking manner was also inappropriate, given his situation.
Does she honestly believe that the parents of the guilty 3 are somehow responsible for this crime......bull-shit.
QuoteDoes she honestly believe that the parents of the guilty 3 are somehow responsible for this crime......bull-shit.She may have? I think it's a natural comment to make personally. She is a mother whose child was murdered. They are mothers whose children have killed hers and they knew it too. She lost her child, they have theirs.This is all conjecture as: 1.) I'm not a mother(and more importanly......... 2.) I'm not Melissa.Anyway, when does that responsibilty or knowledge of your child end?Jason's grandparents were not surprised after hearing what he had done?Jessie has been in trouble with the law a fair few times and got into fights.Damien...well. Damien's parents said that they were scared of him being in their home with other children present. If they felt that about him................why did they allow him to roam about town? His mother supported him whilst he got Domini pregnant. Where was his responsibilty?I don't think Melissa said anything wrong and I certainly don't think it's "bullshit". Apparently during filming, Melissa kept some of Chris' clothes at the door and everytime Bruce and Joe would come in/go out she would show them his clothes to show how small he was. It obviously choked them up. Yet funnily enough they didn't include it in the finished film.(I am paraphrasing as it's on the commentary for the DVD, but I can't remember where.)sheer
blame placed on the CHILDREN'S parents, by the parents of the killers, for letting their little boys wander out of eye-sight.
But Melissa condemned all THREE of the women for simpy giving birth to the 3 killers. But maybe I'm the only one who sees the ignorance in that.
QuoteBut Melissa condemned all THREE of the women for simpy giving birth to the 3 killers. But maybe I'm the only one who sees the ignorance in that.In general I agree with what you are saying - that at some point people will need to stop blaming others (or allowing people to blame others) and accept responsibility for their own actions. However, I perceived Melissa's statement as more of a lashing out than an actual condemnation of the mothers. I wouldn't call that ignorance on Melissa's part, I'd call that a mother coping with the loss of her child in the best way she knew how. I am a mother and I can't say that I wouldn't make the same statement if somene were to harm my son. Of course I am a hothead (my hubby blames it on me being a redheaded Italian), so that might make my reaction a bit more overboard than the average person.